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8/31/11

Help your relationship before it withers off by Jan Arve Angelo.

Life is not a game. You have to take responsibility for your acts. It is about relationships - about how we treat such relationships. In your lifetime, you share relationship with people at different levels. However, starting from your childhood, your relationship with your parents, followed by your life partner and finally your kids is what affects you the most. Most people, who fail to have stable relationships with any of their life's pillars, always feel unsatisfied and frustrated. Yet there are very few who take steps to reunite themselves with their families.
Many a times in life, we make sacrifices for carrying on relationships in life. Even in such cases, where two people live under a roof on some understood terms and conditions, life becomes a living hell. The worst to suffer from a break up in any marriage are the children. Some parents do patch up for the better of their kids. Yet the truth remains that they harm only themselves in this process.
To live a good life, one needs to give more than what he gets. Unless you are willing to give, you will never get more. Also you need to take responsibilities for a relationship to be successful. Not willing to commit is a very big reason for most break ups. Also try to understand the other person's point of view. Think how you would feel being in their shoes. Soon you will understand why the sourness exists in your relationships.
Remember that the biggest reason most relationships die is due to starvation - lack of love or neglect. Such relationships begin to wither and eventually die. You can now take the help of resources online that show you various techniques that you can use to bring back life into these withering relationships. Many have benefited from such online books which give you better idea about your own life. Many a times we fail to understand ourselves. Yet when someone shows you the light, things clear up. You can use the wisdom shared by these authors to help bring back the lust and love into your relationships.
Jan Angelo is an Online Marketing Consultant. You can read his review on the The Magic of Making Up

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